So Friday is the day that I go and file for conservatorship of my sister and a restraining order against her father. She's so excited about it she cant stand it. My attorney said he is about 99% sure that I will win custody of her because the courts will look at his life and my life and see that Im much more fit and stable.
Me:
4 bedroom home, great job of 5 years (and stable job history before this one as well), I pay my taxes and my bills, Im educated, Happily married, Never used drugs and I dont really drink. I have the occassional glass of wine with dinner but thats it.
Him:
hasnt worked in 14 years that I know of other than little side jobs under the table to pay for his drugs. Hes a benging alcoholic, Massive bipolar disorder, history of mental and physical abuse, in and out of rehabs the last 4-5 years and even the ICU because of alcohol, he cant provide a proper home much less food and clothing,... the list goes on and on.
My sister has made mention that if I make her stay there that she will run away. Over the last couple of weeks I have worked hard to keep her calm through everything so that she doesnt but he cusses at her and gets mad at her when she wants to come see me. Of course he knows nothing about any of this, until of course on Friday when he is served.
As for me, Im so overwhelmed and stressed to the point that I feel physically ill. He currently lives 2 streets away from me and Im so worried that hes going to come to my house and Ill have to have him arrested in front of my sister. She doesnt care. She wishes that he would drink himself to death so that she wouldnt have to worry so much.
sigh....
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